Don’t Make These Mistakes in the Bedroom

Sep 19, 2018

One of the most important parts of any relationship is your intimate life. Sex can get trickier as relationships go on and couples make these common bedroom mistakes. Remember that this information should not make you feel any shame, but rather should stimulate communication between you and your partner.

Being Too Passive

No one wants to be in control and in charge all the time. Be willing to initiate sex if it’s your partner that always does it. Don’t be afraid to try some new things. After all, no one wants to eat the same meal for dinner every night. Once you learn to get out of your comfort zone, you can discover new pleasures that you and your partner will both love.

Expecting Your Partner To Read Your MInd

No one else knows what does and does not feel good to you, so it’s important to communicate. Show in a gentle yet clear way just what you like. Your partner wants to please you, you just need to tell them how.

Comparing Your Sex Life To Others

It seems that everywhere we look, we are surrounded by sexual images. This can put a great deal of pressure on us to look or act a certain way. The truth is sex in real life can take a lot of practice and be awkward at times. With that said, it’s important to approach sex with your partner without judgment or expectations.

Being Trapped in a Rut

All too often, couples get trapped in routines that are not working for them. It becomes difficult to change these habits as they are unsure how to change them or worry that they will hurt the other’s feelings if they speak up. We recommend you start by complimenting your partner then telling them one bedroom move you would like more of and listening to them as they tell you the same.

Thinking Sex Starts in the Bedroom

Arousal doesn’t always happen quickly, especially for women. Simple gestures like holding hands, hugging and kissing throughout the day go a long way in getting your partner in the mood. Ultimately, feeling safe and secure in a relationship is the ultimate key to really enjoying sex.

Talking About Other Things

A surprising amount of people have admitted to talking about bills, work and busy schedules during sex. All that talk in the bedroom doesn’t contribute to building a stronger relationship and should be done at other times.

Avoiding these mistakes can allow you to make a great deal of progress in your love life and improve your relationship overall. While you’re trying new things, give ME Female Arousal Gel a try.